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Sales, UGH! How to make money NEVER Selling!

I don't want to sell. I want to serve! 

Unless you're a complete psychopath, sales is really not a job you belong in. 

I don't ever want to even meet another sales person or pass one on the street. NOPE! No thanks! Walk the other way BuckO! I think we all know at least one sales person who should be put behind bars!

What do I want? 

I want to serve people. I want to help people take care of themselves and their families. I want to give people peace of mind. I want to go to bed knowing that tomorrow, if someone I care about is hurt or injured, they don't have to worry about bills piling up because they know they will have a paycheck regardless. 

I want those I'm with not to be devastated by a car repair or maintenance. I want to go to sleep knowing that if there's a fire and someone loses their home to it, they will still be okay.

If that's you too, I want you on my team. I want to help you build a business that is focused on helping people. Sales is terrible. Helping people is amazing!

Since being a single parent, I've been on forums where so many want to work from home but can't find a way to do that. 

Do you want to be able to help those people who need it? Do you want to be able to be home with your kids? 

What is best for you and them?

Being home with little ones is NOT for everyone. My dad, it was better for him and us that he was a truck driver going across the country, and if that is you, GREAT! 

My dad was still an amazing dad, he just couldn't handle the day to day of being around people and that's okay. We aren't all meant to fit into a cookie cutter box!
It's okay not to want to stay home with your family all day! Other people may not want to admit it. ...Especially the church I grew up in but,

We may live in a society  that is only supportive and focused on creating one type of mom or dad but we don't don't have to buy into fitting the plastic mold of stay at home mom or go to work dad mattel model of a "perfect family."

You do what is best for you and your family! If that means you dads stay home and you  moms go to work, THAT'S NOT ONLY OKAY, THAT'S ABSOLUTELY PERFECTLY FANTASTIC!!! BE HAPPY! BE UNIQUE!!!!

What I'm offering you is the chance to choose where you work from, how much work you do and how much money you make, WHILE HELPING PEOPLE!

This is the opportunity to make as much or as little money as YOU want! 

David and I made millions with this type of model.

Back then, there was a lot I didn't understand. Part of it was I wasn't in a place to really get it and the example I had, was not exactly the... um... love of my life. Sadly, I sort of hated David. I tried not to. I tried to focus on what a good provider he was, but he just wasn't my cup of tea. 

I know some of you out there are still hoping he and I will work things out, but please give that idea up.

 As for the sane rest of you, you've been so supportive of me over the years. I'm sorry it's taken me this long to figure out so many simple things.

I thought I had to be a paragon of perfection for anyone to love me so I  held myself back from making mistakes, learning, and being real. Then, I was so scared by all the crazies, I pushed everyone away, even the very wonderful YOU!

I'm grateful to those of you who stuck by me through the thick and the thin of it... especially the years when I barely posted anything! Do you know how amazing it is to have friends who love you even when you go MIA? It's incredible! Thank YOU!

What I want right now, is to find out what we're capable of doing together! I want to truly be in this life with you, serving you in anyway I can, even if it is just listening to YOU rant!

I want to make YOU  feel as important and wonderful as YOU deserve! Some of you have been there for me for years and I've neglected our friendship. I'm sorry, and while I'm still not completely healed from the PTSD I'm doing better and I'm ready to try again. 

I hope you'll let me be there for you too!

Even if you are a new person in my life whom I've never had the pleasure of getting to know, I want to know you! I want to be there for you! I want to help you get whatever it is YOU want in life!

Do you want to travel? Do you want to have the time and freedom to write a book? Do you want to make friends everywhere you go? Or do you want to sit home and watch tv?

Who are you? Are we friends on Facebook? If not would you like to be? Feel free to comment with your thoughts, your pain, your excitement, whatever it is that's going on in your life and if I can help and how!

 Let's join together in doing amazing things! Let's make our lives wonderful for ourselves and those we love!




 

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