So as my video (about not dating single dads) was uploading yesterday, I took Messy on a walk, during which we met a HOT single dad , his six-year-old daughter and their dog. As we talked he learned I'm nomadic, child-free and he still asked for my number... I hesitated but gave him the digits. Suspecting he isn't looking to settle down or for anything serious... My thoughts, it might be fun for a bit, maybe he'll be interesting, maybe I'll learn something through dating him... Suddenly today I realized the oddity in how I view dating compared to most people. I have no hope or expectations of long term. And maybe that's why my relationships are fleeting but deliciously sweet because I don't feel bitterness when things inevitably end. Or maybe my relationships have the shelf life of a ripe banana because as we parted ways I noticed a text from the guy who thinks I walk on water but lives 2 hours away... telling me to call him and so before I was even out of ear...
Do your best, take it day by day.