David, I want you to know I am grateful for how everything happened. I never thought I could be so happy! There are days I cry because the joy is overwhelming. A lot of that is due to you. After you left me I did a lot of inner work. Because I admired your drive and determination to deal with life I went through tons of hypnosis at first just to ease the pain then for success and drive. I also got super into personal development and neuropsychology which helped me gain an understanding of why we didn't work well together and why I was unhappy when we were married. Turns out I'm an island wave personality one of the hardest to deal with and I apologize for that. In our relationship you became the over functioning partner and I spiraled into under-functioning afraid to own my power or acknowledge my needs which caused me to get super depressed. Being an island personality type when I feel someone holding onto me I retreat emotionally and it wasn'
Do your best, take it day by day.